Friday, January 8, 2010

The Right Love ... How does one get them!!??

We all have heard the word TRUE LOVE.But how many of us have had disappointments ,embarrassments and what not in order to desperately find one..? The answer is - almost all of us.But if we look deep inside, the term TRUE LOVE  does not define a ready made  guy or girl who is available somewhere out there to fill that gap.

Well if you look further deep inside the term that should replace TRUE LOVE is RIGHT LOVE.Finding the right love is one task which is as difficult as finding the right outfit to a party which wont make you look fat(if you are).

The first step of this hunt is to be well aware of what kind of a person we are.Like the fashion world would say every outfit must have the right pair of shoes.Do not hunt your mate based on  current trends,The mistake most of us do in common. 

Examples-
a guy or girl  with a great body ,
long hair,
ambitious and intellectual(could be faked),
most popular guy  or girl at school,college or work place...

When you shop for shoes you have two important choices.You can either go for fashion or comfort.A sparkling  3 inch stiletto may look great but can torture your ankle on that party night.A brown boring BATA  slippers are a heaven to walk with but you will look like dunce in many cloths.

Life is a combination of style and comfort.The only choice we have to make is decide what is the proportion of these two elements in your life.Keep your mind wide open and look for the signs.

Well you would never know that person could be just one cubicle or table away from  you.As for RIGHT LOVE,it will definitely bond you into TRUE LOVE.

10 comments:

  1. gud.. yaar keep bloging..

    hey but plz..if u can change the text font

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  2. and if the search had already began than all the best, but does my query is can one decide and define what is true, right, or untrue, it is strictly subjective according to one's own personal journey. Can't classify it though cos love is love, attaching measurements or values to it may put certain limitations like true can become untrue and once right may turn unright because changes is inevitable, but simple plain LOVE remain, it is the language of the soul, so there is no form but lots of truth is already buried within this form which is limitless. So hso here joining your thoughts, hearts open not only to take but also to give this endless treasure we all have inside us

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  3. Bernidine ....

    you told all my words.

    people change , so the LOVE does the same.

    You can't say the shoe example for describing right love.

    if you still stick with the example,

    i would say....

    Most of them go for the "sparkling 3 inch stiletto" which they like.

    But,

    You know what????

    LOVE is something ...... can't explain in words.

    WHAT DO YOU SAY?

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  4. U r shoe Freaky ,Sex and the city Fan...So U r like Carrie Bradshaw....so as u said it mite be the next Guy in ur cubicle...or the guy who looks for single table for dining in ;near u .

    So all together one comment and one question
    comment is Damn gud definition (though compared Right Love with Show shopping)
    Question is Whats ur Proportion?

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  5. To me personally,I would fall for some one who makes me comfortable when he is around..Later then I would groom him up ..May drive him to join a gym or dance class

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  6. "Life is a combination of style and comfort!!" totally agree! I love that u said that! totally true! mwaaa love u!keep bloggin! much love!

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