The FEELING ALONE Syndrome

Believe it or not, FEELING ALONE is the fastest growing disease in The Metro(Chennai).We all know the saying "Man is a social animal".We  live in groups or clusters or a crowd.Unlike animals which can manage  living alone in forests,deserts or in sea ,we need someone to be there for us whether it is making money,building a house,cultivating crops and the list goes on.....

Some of us could also feel being alone or going solo is a wonderful experience.But how long can we do that?
Come on................At least you will need a nurse to wipe your privates when you are really old.

This feeling has the capacity to suck all your good times which you can spend rather make you sit on your bed crying with tissue papers in your hand or make you go for a fag in a deserted place.
 The peculiarity is that, we sometimes feel really alone even if there are people around us.You get it .....??

You come home after surviving the huge battle of politics in  office or college and people at home cannot understand what you had gone through even if you had explained.They love you but they cant help....Huf....


Remember the last time your boyfriend/husband  changed his weekend plans with you and went out with his friends for a booze,or when you wait at the parking lot of a Shopping mall for your girlfriend and you get a call from her saying that she has work to finish at home/office(which means she has oiled her hair or didn't find a good dress to wear)....Sounds familiar....................

The good note here my friend is ,it happens to every single person in this city.Here we have a choice.Either feel depressed and go back into that shell with a gloomy, sad bundle of emotion or make change of plans.

SEE...When they don't turn up...Think what you can do to make that moment even more interesting...Think of your other close ones who are available that day.Just go and don't look back. On a wicked note...Make them  regret for not making a decision of  being with you.If you cant make that moment..., Fake that moment... Just lie to them that you had a blast......I swear you will feel GREAT....

Anyway sometimes you have to admit being alone comes without a choice.That time you must remember one thing....

Thing to remember is if we are all alone, then we are all together in that too.

The Right Love ... How does one get them!!??

We all have heard the word TRUE LOVE.But how many of us have had disappointments ,embarrassments and what not in order to desperately find one..? The answer is - almost all of us.But if we look deep inside, the term TRUE LOVE  does not define a ready made  guy or girl who is available somewhere out there to fill that gap.

Well if you look further deep inside the term that should replace TRUE LOVE is RIGHT LOVE.Finding the right love is one task which is as difficult as finding the right outfit to a party which wont make you look fat(if you are).

The first step of this hunt is to be well aware of what kind of a person we are.Like the fashion world would say every outfit must have the right pair of shoes.Do not hunt your mate based on  current trends,The mistake most of us do in common. 

Examples-
a guy or girl  with a great body ,
long hair,
ambitious and intellectual(could be faked),
most popular guy  or girl at school,college or work place...

When you shop for shoes you have two important choices.You can either go for fashion or comfort.A sparkling  3 inch stiletto may look great but can torture your ankle on that party night.A brown boring BATA  slippers are a heaven to walk with but you will look like dunce in many cloths.

Life is a combination of style and comfort.The only choice we have to make is decide what is the proportion of these two elements in your life.Keep your mind wide open and look for the signs.

Well you would never know that person could be just one cubicle or table away from  you.As for RIGHT LOVE,it will definitely bond you into TRUE LOVE.